We have to be honest for once with absolute no disrespectful meaning; gay persons are definitely different than straight. And it’s what makes choosing perfect gift for your partner difficult. Homosexual men can go as far to feminine spectrum or stay masculine, in most cases. The feminive guys are definitely more sensitive and emotional and care about gifts more than „macho“ tough ones. Let’s not make it flowers or jewellery, let’s thing of something unique as you appear to be idealess.
If you know them well, cologne won’t be bad present. Everybody likes to smell good. Make sure it’s some famous industry such as „Armani“, make it fancy. You don’t spend all of the cologne in one day like a chocolate, it’ll last for a while. Also, why not going to shopping with him. Simple as that. Just make sure it’s a little more thoughtful than usual.
Everyone surely love a good cocktail as it’s something we don’t drink every day. By gifting him a nice set of cocktail glasses you’ll say: „Hey, let’s make an awesome cocktail party“. Well, it is going to be with friends/family or private, up to you.
Gay men seem to be fond of theatre. Even if they’re usually not, there surely is at least one play in the world they’ll like, like anybody else. Romance, drama, comedy, history plays or even a musical play. There is variety of genres and plays, you will surely find something.
If your relationship is still new, you might want to be careful with gifts and make sure you don’t rush things too far and too soon.
Knowing their personality is definitely the biggest help you’ll find. Remember that. Afterall, if you are in mature relationship your partner will surely appreciate any kind of gift and know you did your best. Well, maybe cook him Christmas Dinner, make a snowman together… it’s also in the little things like those. Good luck!